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A Transforming Love

8/2/2012

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This might come off a bit conceited, but bear with me because those that know me, know that I am not the least bit of the sort.  And with that said, I think the problem with America today is that we have a lot of Christians living in the infancy stage.  They haven’t gotten to a point where they are able to be tolerant of others and not have it impact them and their faith in a negative way.  I was once such a Christian and after some agnostic/Wicca years and a long rocky road back to God I can understand the ever-present right and the ever-present left of our society.  I think the ultimate aim of a Christian is to represent Christ to the world.  We are to live our lives as a testament to Him and His love.  Unfortunately, many Christians find themselves doing the exact opposite even though they are blind to the fact.  In order for one to be tolerant of others, one must be firmly rooted in their own beliefs and confident in their own preferences and choices regarding lifestyle.  I firmly believe this is the biggest hurdle to why many Christians are not able to be tolerant of others beliefs or lack there of while still showing God’s love and acceptance while living a life of love and service to others.  It takes a lot to be surrounded by those who don’t believe the same as you or live a lifestyle the same as you and still love and support them without loosing some of your own personal convictions.  The simple truth is many of us are just weak when it comes to certain sins.  I know that was my hang-up.  Each of us has our own area of weakness.  Some of us have trouble keeping our pants on while some of us have trouble telling the truth while some of us have trouble coveting the blessings of others.  After all, to God, it is all sin.  No hierarchy, just sin and it puts all of us on a level playing field whether we want to admit it or not.  And don’t think I don’t realize that there are plenty of non-religious people that could use a good talking to… because for every infant Christian there is an infant non-religious zealot doing the exact same thing, but I cannot speak to them since I am no longer one of them.

God loves us where we are.  He doesn’t require us to change who or what we are in order to receive His love.  He takes us as we are and He slowly molds us into better human beings as we progress in our relationship with Him, our creator and sustainer.  He sends the Holy Spirit to be the convicting force in our life.  Our friends might support the notion, but it’s not their job to convict.  Conviction belongs to the Holy Spirit.  That’s why Yeshua said, “Those without sin shall cast the first stone.” He knew no one would be able to stand in judgment against another and instead they would be compelled to stand in love with that other human being. 

My personal walk has held inside it a lot of scenic routes and I am thankful for these adventures as they not only help me better understand those with opposing beliefs, but they help me to firmly ground myself in my own beliefs as well.  I’ve made no attempt to hide the fact that I once left God because of the church- hell; the church almost cost me my life.  The reason being I once mistook the church and it’s leaders for being God, which they are not.  The only convicting power on this planet is that of the Holy Spirit.  I believe that our job as Christians is to be an example of the love of God for every human being on this planet.  We are to tell others of His love and live that love out, but we are to leave the convicting and the changing of life or lifestyle to God.  He can do it.  He’s done it in every follower of Christ on this planet and He can do the same for every follower of Christ to come.  It saddens me how so many of my brothers and sisters in Christ are so hard hearted to those a little different from themselves.  Even when they admit to being full of sin they don’t seem to have any compassion for others nor care to find out why someone believes or acts the way they do.  How can anyone impact another without even trying to understand where another is coming from or trying to imagine walking a mile in another’s shoes? 

I come from a long line of southern pastors, but I have not always believed in the existence of God, but He never held it against me and even after I believed and decided for a time that I might have been wrong He still loved me.  He was always standing beside me with arms wide open ready to welcome me home.   And when I finally did come home, He didn’t scold me and He didn’t make me change into this person I was not – He just loved me and that’s what He asks of those who follow Him - to simply love others in the same way that He has loved each of us.  We are all full of faults and a whole lot less than worthy than we would like to believe, but He accepted us as we are and we should do the same for everyone and especially those who have yet to find Him.

If you are a Christian looking to make an impact in this world I challenge you to just love people.  Tell others of how much God loves them and follow it up with examples of how God proves His love to you everyday.  If you want to push something, push an honest and ongoing conversation with the creator and sustainer of this universe.  Be kind; treat people the way you would want to be treated if you were in their shoes… After all, Yeshua, himself, said everything rests on loving God first and then loving your neighbors as yourself.  For He said there is no greater commandment than these.  Yes, it is true that Christians need to step up and take back this country, but not in the way it is being propagated: For it is by our love for not only one another, but for all of mankind that we shall be known as His.

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